tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162757454369931173.post5352617971554295493..comments2022-05-23T02:43:30.184-07:00Comments on Life After Marriage to a Psychopath: Resist The Urge To EngageAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14523623166702412510noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162757454369931173.post-21854458206825667982016-11-03T19:46:44.275-07:002016-11-03T19:46:44.275-07:00Hi. Thanks for writing. I'm am so sorry you ...Hi. Thanks for writing. I'm am so sorry you have to deal with this nonsense. <br /><br />Here's the hard truth, as I currently see it (and this deserves a post of its own...)<br /><br />Unfortunately, dealing with a NSP requires a lot of STRATEGY. <br /><br />When we are in the midst of interacting with judges (actual judges in a court setting - or any type of judge, in the form of Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14523623166702412510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7162757454369931173.post-34390635473108835052016-11-02T23:44:33.179-07:002016-11-02T23:44:33.179-07:00I so 'get' this advice to do not engage, b...I so 'get' this advice to do not engage, but I've yet to find the balance between adequate engagement to demonstrate to a judge that you are the better communicator, fostering of the relationship (yep, to defend against an abuser's relentless allegations of alienation)….and disengagement - which is what I would like.<br />I feel trapped by this. I want to not give a crap what a Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com