Summary List of Articles

  • When You Shine
  • The Psychopath is attracted to your sparkly self.  After you have separated from him, make sure you start to shine again.  Don't be a Grey Rock forever.
How the NSP uses constant lying to diminish his target.   How to deal?  Ignore, and get away.

Emotional and Verbal Abuse via Email

1 comment:

  1. Thank you for having the courage to write your story. Your words are my words and have helped me feel so much less crazy. I have just begun my journey of recovery. I have been divorced for over a year but had to fight horrid accusations and a staged confrontation that led to an arrest with DV charges (all planned on his part). I was easy prey and reacted to his plot. I had to take 6 months of DV classes which were a complete joke and full of woman in similar circumstances. It was very rare that a woman was in the system for DV that actually needed to be. These narcissist have learned that they can use the law to get their revenge. It was the Friday before I was to close on my house and move out.

    All that is done and I have sealed my records, which he tried to prevent as well. There have been many more but now I have been learning what he is and what he is capable of and how he get his knowledge of what will devastate me. Your information has helped me so much! We are starting to use a PC/DM because the ex decided that a 9 and 7 year old didn't need before and after school care and could be alone! I have let a lot go, but this was giving me nightmares and I knew he would come back at me for processing through the courts but I felt I had to protect my kids.

    What I hope will be helpful is that the PC/DM had me get the "Wolf in Sheep's Clothing" book and he is the one that showed me the ex is a sociopath and psychopathy. I am anxious about the process and I am hoping the PC/DM will stay in the best interest of the children and not fall for the crazy.

    I have a lot of work to do on my recovery but I wanted to take the time to thank you for helping me realize that this is "not in my head" and "I need help". The ex did a huge smear campaign and got my dad to help him in his plot. My oldest sister also sided with him. I am estranged from both of them still and will not have anything to do with people that buy into his manipulation.

    Thanks again!